...many thanks Mike. I did go through this exercise some 10-15 years back, and whoever assisted me then said, as you have said -there were no Lawrence casualties at Nicholson's Nek. Hence I feel the need to broaden the spectrum and therefore am in need of some ideas/leads. I looked at the list of casualties on the website here and nothing 'jumped out' at me... I also am in possession of a great big tome of 'Casualties of the S.A.F.F.' however that has only the fewest of references pre-March 1900. It also doesn't have Private Hayman 'injury' who was involved in my Great Uncle and his VC, but maybe a dislocated shoulder doesn't qualify for being 'slightly injured'. It is a wonderful book and whilst I am sure there will be some errors, it is quite a feat of compilation, however I do remain curious about the categories of 'woundedness' -slightly injured/wounded, wounded, severely wounded/injured, and dangerously wounded! I'm getting distracted...
The fellow was Harold Lawrence. His brothers, George Marcus Lawrence was 18th Hussars and Tom Lawrence VC of the 17th Lancers. With some degree of logic, it could be assumed that Harold would have gone for a cavalry regiment too. The family all stemmed from Bewdley in Worcestershire, and hence the possibilities in the Gloucestershire Regt.
The 18th Hussars obviously had quite a bit to do with that neck of the woods and that could be a possibility -brothers in the same unit? Could he have been among those 18th Hussars that were lost at Talana Hill? The 'family legend' stems from a small article in a Worcestershire newspaper when Tom won his VC, that his brother Marc and Harold were in SA too, Harold unfortunately being killed at Nicholson's Nek. Newspapers have a certain notoriety for getting things wrong!!!
Marc (my grandfather) was, I believe, with Dundonald. This stems from yet another newspaper clipping from a Kenyan newspaper referring to a Ladysmith Reunion Dinner held in Nairobi -probably back in the late 1940s, referring to Captain Marc Lawrence as "...the first man into Ladysmith reporting to General White two days before the main Relief Column arrived". During the Boer War, according to his Army Service Record he appears as a fairly ill disciplined trooper who could barely handle the responsibility of being a Lance Corporal! Oral history says he was doing a lot of scouting on horseback. So whilst it was eminently possible that he could have been the first man in if he was in that role. However I suspect that it is more of a newspaper misinterpretation, and what actually happened was that he arrived in Ladysmith as part of Dundonald's column two days ahead of Buller's column. I am sure there are countless claims of who was actually the first man into Ladysmith. However I have no 'definitive proof' as to where he was... so this could all be wrongly assumed!
Many thanks indeed,
Tom